These are the two statements I chose to respond to:
How you would respond to a parent/family member who
informed you they did not want anyone who is perceived (or self-reported)
homosexual or transgender to be caring for, educating, and/or interacting with
their child
If a parent was biased against a homosexual or
transgender, I would inform them that because a person is homosexual or
transgender does not mean their child won’t receive a good education. I will go
on to explain that each person is unique in his or her own way, and we are an
anti-bias center. I would also inform
the parent or family member the educator has a right to employment lf their
choice as anyone else.
If you have ever used or heard homophobic terms such
as "fag," "gay," "homo," "sissy,"
"tom boy," or "lesbo" as an insult by a child toward
another child? Or, by an adult toward a child? Describe what occurred. How
might these types of comments influence all children? (Note: if you have not
had a personal experience, ask a family member, friend, or colleague)
I have heard all these terms throughout my life. I
heard them as a child, but did not really know what they meant until I heard
other children and adults speak about it. I remember when I was in high school
and this boy was in our class. The children said he was gay because of the way
he carried himself and spoke. His voice was real soft and he walked differently
than the other males in the class. I said I don’t think he’s gay because he
likes girls. The other classmates said he’s just pretending he does so we won’t
know he’s gay. I never found out if he was gay or not, it really didn’t matter
to me. I always talked to him in class and he was always nice to me.
Hi Brenda,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your thoughts about these topics. I feel like when we were younger, especially high school aged, we have all probably experienced being in classes with people who were perceived as being gay. I had a very difficult time in high school and I didn't have gender or sexuality issues to personally deal with. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for kids who are struggling with their sexuality and gender. I'm glad to hear that you were kind to the boy in your class. I'm sure he still remembers that you treated him well, regardless of any perceived differences.
Thanks for the post.
Sharon
Brenda you are right! I would ask the parent to give it a chance first and see how things will work out before passing judgement on a individual caring for their child. Great post!
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