Saturday, January 25, 2014

"Start Seeing Diversity Video" Blog: Gender, Gender Identity, and Sexual Orientation


These are the two statements I chose to respond to:

How you would respond to a parent/family member who informed you they did not want anyone who is perceived (or self-reported) homosexual or transgender to be caring for, educating, and/or interacting with their child

If a parent was biased against a homosexual or transgender, I would inform them that because a person is homosexual or transgender does not mean their child won’t receive a good education. I will go on to explain that each person is unique in his or her own way, and we are an anti-bias center.  I would also inform the parent or family member the educator has a right to employment lf their choice as anyone else.

 

If you have ever used or heard homophobic terms such as "fag," "gay," "homo," "sissy," "tom boy," or "lesbo" as an insult by a child toward another child? Or, by an adult toward a child? Describe what occurred. How might these types of comments influence all children? (Note: if you have not had a personal experience, ask a family member, friend, or colleague)

I have heard all these terms throughout my life. I heard them as a child, but did not really know what they meant until I heard other children and adults speak about it. I remember when I was in high school and this boy was in our class. The children said he was gay because of the way he carried himself and spoke. His voice was real soft and he walked differently than the other males in the class. I said I don’t think he’s gay because he likes girls. The other classmates said he’s just pretending he does so we won’t know he’s gay. I never found out if he was gay or not, it really didn’t matter to me. I always talked to him in class and he was always nice to me.